Carl Weber's So You Call Yourself A Man (4:30 marker) I have to let it be known that I am really ticked off at Mr. Carl Weber and once you read the book, you may be too. I don't want to ruin it for anyone that is planning on reading So You Call Yourself A Man which I do recommend but, grrrrrr, I am pretty pissed. Carl Weber duped me and, in this case, that is a good thing because I was surprised by some of the events in the book and that doesn't easily happen. The acclaimed national bestselling author of such smart, sexy novels as The Preacher’s Son and Player Haters returns with a tale of three best friends who’ve grown from boys to men together. But now that they’re each either married or about to be, they’re coming up against some of the real tests of manhood… James Robinson and his wife, Cathy, have had their rough patches. But seven years into their marriage, things are better, and hotter, than ever—until the not-so-distant past catches up with James. During a partic...