Heartache is not an ingrediant in the recipe for my life, so I adjust to remove any hint of it. Don't get me wrong, I have made decisions that have led me down the path of heartache, and I do not doubt that I will make poor decisions in the future. We are human and cannot help our faults somtimes; however that does not mean that we have to live in a state of heartache.
I try to maintain a healthy dose of joy, hope, love, faithfulness, kindness and peace in life. At times it is so much harder to maintain than others. Those are the times when we have to consciously choose to live free from drama, stress and heartache. Sometimes being happy and positive and self loved is a choice.
Today and tomorrow, I choose me.
Love yourself enough.